Don’t let emotions break before graduation
Shattered thermos bottles in the bedroom, messy graffiti on the surface of the powder, smashed glass on the windows, discarded spit stains in the toilet, and the cry of howl from midnight.
This is the final madness of college seniors in these last days.
In many colleges, from the end of June to the beginning of July, classmates are constantly venting, and accidentally you will see a thermos flying out of a window, unless the glass in the bathroom is replaced and broken.The white powder wood board uses ink and red paint to write the words “depressed”, “get out” and so on.
Every day, everyone is brought back from the restaurant at the door. The most drinkable and the least drinkable drink are upset.
Some people simply believe that this phenomenon is caused by students’ dissatisfaction with their school, but this phenomenon is very common on university campuses, and even prestigious schools such as Tsinghua University are no exception.
Some people think that this phenomenon is mainly caused by the bad mood of some students who are not in good employment, but it is understood that among these students, there are people who have not yet found a job, but also have bright prospects.
Is some kind of psychology driving different people in these different schools to repeat the same thing year after year?
We interviewed experts on this phenomenon.
Why does the obedient tiger become a disruption expert? Experts believe that this is a typical psychological phenomenon. Any individual must have many unpleasant things in his four-year college life. These negative emotions are in some school regulations.Under the system, the students were suppressed and accumulated, and when they were about to graduate, the students felt that the restraints on them had completely disappeared, so at this time they needed to vent their own depressed needs.Finding a venting target, so the school that controls students for four years naturally became this target, and what destroyed the school became a way to find pleasure.
Of course, first of all, this phenomenon will inevitably have a fuse-this is the self-interest bias in the external attribution effect in psychology.
That is, people think that they attribute their success to internal factors and their failure to external factors.
Those who are very poorly mixed.
They usually suppress their psychological unhappiness on weekdays. When graduation comes, when parting comes, when they see some other students pack up and go, and they drift back and forth, there are no branches to help them.These emotions are entangled, which aroused the psychological turbulence of these students.
They will admit to looking for external reasons for themselves.
They simply blame the school for their disadvantaged situation, and simply vent their anger to the surroundings.
As a result, the previous destruction scenes appeared.
At the same time, in another aspect, the herd effect also plays a vital role in the occurrence of this phenomenon.
From a psychological perspective, the behavior of others can have a great impact on the behavior of individuals.
From this aspect, it can explain why many students may be quite good in all aspects, but they are still involved in these destructive behaviors.
When they see that those students whose psychological pressure is suppressed are venting themselves, these slightly irritating scenes and sounds will stimulate them to think of some frustrating things and arouse their desire to vent.
As a result, these students who were supposed to be obedient tigers became destruction experts.
At the moment of graduation, more sane experts warned graduates that in this sentence before graduation, they must control their emotions, and must not make radical actions because of the happiness of the moment, so in the employer, in the societyThe influence in China is not good.
At the same time, don’t forget to recharge your psychology on the eve of graduation, and let yourself go to society with an optimistic and rational image.